Sexy Chicks | Guys Who Like Fat Chicks

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So where are the guys who like chubby girls. The ones who definitely don't qualify as BBW, but definitely aren't skinny? The girls who have big boobs, hips, small waist, and can look either thin or heavier depending on what they're wearing or the week? Where are those guys? Because I sure can't ever find them.

What appallingly lazy research into the use of the term "chubby chaser" in the gay community. You link to a comment on a message board for a casting call for an MTV show that reinforces the point that you are trying to refute. I know it's so much easier when you can just selectively pick random opinions off of internet message boards to support your arguments instead of doing actual research, but next time please do us all a favor and shut the hell up.

Wake up, smell the coffee... not all big women have low self esteem and we are certainly not all trying please everyone. When I started college, I came of my shell so to speak and frankly, if someone doesn't like the way I look, they can turn the F around and walk away because it's Their problem, not Mine :) And sadly there are lots of big girls with low self esteem, but it's because men (in general) are so MEAN to them. Granted there are other women that are mean too but it's usually because big girls have grown up with rude and mean comment thrown in their face all the time and every single day of their life (including myself). Even as adults we still have to deal with the stupidity and ignorance of immature men snickering and cracking jokes behind us in the grocery lines or elsewhere. Don't blame the women, blame the men, blame society and the skewed sense of what is beautiful and sexy. I say, to each their own... but this world needs a LOT more of SIZE ACCEPTANCE !!! (this includes any size, small, large, or extra large).

In my own experience, I've found that voluptuous women are more likely to be highly sensual, to be very attuned to their bodies, and are far more likely to have very well developed personalities and strong interpersonal skills. Those curvy women who I've known well have been - in the main - far more compassionate, more open-minded and more interesting to talk with, than their less curvy peers.Perhaps this is partly because of our wayward society's modern (and only quite recent) emphasis on lean - even emaciated - body styles as a false ideal, and because the further an individual woman's natural physique differs from that illusory standard, the more she might feel encouraged or even compelled to develop and advance many other aspects of her beautiful nature. Conversely, a woman who can more readily liken herself to all those skillfully photoshopped images that are now so ubiquitous in popular culture may feel that she has some advantage that consigns such personality development to a position of lower priority in her mind - and perhaps this perception engenders a level of conceit and even contempt for others that a more naturally curvy woman may not feel.However, a significant factor in my own attraction for curves might also be wrapped up in raw male instincts for procreation. Through human history until very recent times, the ideal has been a substantially curvaceous and womanly body style. Why is this so? Many of us are likely aware of a recent study of the qualities that determine facial attractiveness, which identified a high degree of symmetry and youthful proportions as operative ideals - but what of the body? Certainly a woman's body is engineered to hold a greater reserve of calories as a natural defense against scarcity while she nurtures new life within her, but does this quality reach the level of an ideal in the subconscious male mind?I read some years ago of a study that was done on male attraction to the female body shape, which came to one very intriguing conclusion - that the average male's purely physical sexual attraction to one particular woman over others is not based specifically on her weight, or height, or breast size, or hair color, but instead was keyed in on a simple ratio: her waist circumference compared to her hip circumference.The ideal ratio that was identified in the study was 7 to 10 - so it appears that (in spite of the 'heroin chic' images foisted upon us by modern media) a woman with a 42 inch waist and 60 inch hips is generating the same visceral attraction as a woman with a 21 inch waist and 30 inch hips. It should come as no surprise that this ideal ratio correlates directly to successful child-bearing.The drive to create the next generation is strong, and manifests differently in each gender. Men are plainly driven by instinct to choose the best mates to carry their seed to fruition and are also driven to sew their seed as broadly as possible. Women have been found not only to be more selective in choosing a mating partner generally, but they are also more sexually attracted to sensitive, nurturing males outside of the fertile cycle and then drawn to more rugged, aggressive and athletic males within the fertile cycle - they are at once instinctively seeking the best providers for the nest and the best genetic stock. ...Just as an aside, perhaps these deep drives are significant explanations of why long-term monogamy has proven such a difficult proposition for both men and women.Allow me to close with the following observations... Our most well known female "sex symbols" throughout the modern era - Mae West, Jean Harlot, Marilyn Monroe, even up to Jennifer Lopez - were never thin women. It was only after the fashion world went crazy over "Twiggy" (a boyish and rail thin waif that attained fame in the early 1960's) that a lack of curves began to become culturally accepted and eventually even advantageous. There's a reason why the beanpole Olive Oyl was conceived as a comedically ridiculous object of affection for Popeye and Bluto/Brutus back in the early morning of popular Western entertainment. She was the direct opposite of that long held ideal that still makes its home in our deepest psyche.For me, curves have always been - and always will be - far more interesting than straight lines. A brief examination of fertility symbols, across the continents and through millennia, will demonstrate that the vast majority of humanity has always shared that perspective.

Your name "Eaton Cox" tells us everything we need to know about you ;-p LMAO

As if low self esteem is exclusive to fat women. Do you even know any fat women?

or saxophones

They're have low self esteem and are always trying to please.

way to miss the point of the article, and just so you know, women do not NEED a man.

Most of the "fat" women I know do NOT suffer from low self-esteem and they certainly ARE strong. They have to be strong to put up with attitudes and misconceptions like yours....

Well hey there.

I don't think fat= low self-esteem, and there certainly isn't less competition. I get asked out on a regular bases despite my size, and I have always loved myself no matter my size. On the flip side, I know many "skinny" people with far lower self-esteem issues and body image issues than I have ever had, and I'm 300 pounds.

WHy does it make "him look better' though? You mean like, nicer? More accepting?

I don't know... I often see totally average looking guys with beautiful girlfriends. I never see a plain or normal looking girl with a really hot guy. Women have this rep as being really picky (and some are! Like those "I'm a PRINCESS I deserve THE BEST" girls. but for the most part I don't think they are.

I like the McDonald's ad on this page. Funny.Also; just about everyone wants skinny girls. it's the norm. So it doesn't have to be praised.

then why did he date young beautiful fat girls instead of ugly old fat girls ?"Not skinny but fit and healthy" then why even muscular girls are discriminated, and their lovers also insulted about their preferences ?and why would a fat girl be easily manipulated ?you should learn to know people who are outside of normality to open your mind :)

Clearly you didn't read through the entire article. As a FA myself, there is nothing farther from the truth than this. I have loved big women ever since I can remember, and you know what? I had no control over it. Stop kidding yourself hun, people are legitimately attracted to bigger women whether you admit it to yourself or not.

Isnt their a bit of a double standard here? A man who prefers thin women is considered shallow but a man who prefers plus size women is praised.I bet there is more men who have no problem dating a woman who is fat compared to women who would date a man shorter than herself (including fat women). But again having a preference for thin women makes a man shallow, but women preferring a man taller than her is deemed an acceptable preference.There is a BBW dating sites and BBW dances that have been around for years that caters to plus size women and the men who are attracted to them. So it's not a new phenomenon.

I'm a middle-aged straight man with a definite, lifelong preference for big, beautiful women, and I recognize so much of the content of this article. The myths, the incomprehension and the getting over the whole "You're beautiful!" - "You're crazy!" thing.Believe it, girls, we're out there, and I'm so glad to hear that it's getting easier for us to find each other!

I'll tell you why guys like fat chicks....because they're no competition to the guys.Fat chicks get less attention so the guy doesn't have to worry about someone takingher attention away. It also makes him look better. This article is full of crap!!!! When a woman looks better she feels better. Not skinny but fit and healthy. A strong woman needs a strong man. There are not alot of strong men out there so they opt for fat low self-esteem women. Easier to control because options are limited. Kiss this BS goodbye!!!

I've recently finally been able to admit to being an FA thanks to a friend of mine who is a bbw through and through. My friends and family find my preference weird and so for a long time I thought there was something wrong with me. At 29 I can admit that I love big beautiful women. I have a nearly impossible time getting an erection for girls 130 and under but 180 and up? Every time.

This article seemed so unnatural and cartoon-ish to me. Men fetish-size all shapes of women just like they fetish-size objects. It would have been nicer if this was just an article about a guy who liked fat women. There are lots of guys in my family who like and marry fat women and they do not have a mindset like the guy in this article,

I knew these kind of guys existed-I always have been able to find them:)

not as intelligent as I would have hoped, but a clear-headed open minded start to address that fat people are people too and that extends to our sexuality.

I wanted to like this article because it sheds some positive light on certain things.....However, as a woman, I am reeling.The title of this article should be "Guys who Like Fat Chicks In Bed." As much as the article tries to emphasize that these mens' collective preference for larger women is not fetishistic, I have to disagree.What the article doesn't mention is that ALL men who have a "preference" for a certain body type are basically fetishists. It's kind of sad that men who prefer the company of extremely thin, leggy blondes aren't also considered fetishists. Fetish, preference, whatever....you're still excluding someone you might really come to care for and someone who might really come to care for you based on an appearance that gives you instant sexual gratification.This article is shallow and it's not really about people relating to one another. It's not about finding love or romance or kinship or even friendship, all things that are necessary for a relationship to work. I don't dispute that you also need sexual attraction for a relationship to work, but that's only one part of the equation. This article is just about a bunch of guys who like the way fat women look. Good for them, glad they can admit it, but that's not enough for the likes of me. I wish that attached to this article there had been a message of "Love is love, regardless of what you are attracted to or THINK you are attracted to."

I thought they were trying to sort of mock them by doing the same thing in a positive context.

I really wish the editors didn't crop out Luna Love's face. The photos in this article hearken to the "headless fatties" from weight-loss advertisements war on obesity articles.

i think "lawrence" should take this ph.d.-toting hot fat girl with brown hair and green eyes out to coffee!

very interesting. finally, some admits what I have found in my own life.

Great article!!!!

Love this article!

I think it helps if you've been around big women all your life but i get what this guys saying it's eternal bliss , but im big myself but even if i changed my body i still would love big women.

LOL. I like big butts and I cannot lie.

I personally think this is a great piece. Things are not going to get any better until the MEN, stand up more for what they like. The Wizard of BODacious

Exactly, and there are many people who are just as active even heavier. This is why a person should never be judged by a number on the scale. Problem in Hollywood is if you put any normal size woman next to a size zero, she's going to look large. Also, fat centered topics minus any negativity is ignored because most don't know that there is a market out there for it. Weight always gets attention. Nice to see this article. Even nicer if the majority of men picked women not based on what their friend's think, but what their heart feels.

I'm glad that there are men who have the balls and the voice to stand up and go on the record to say " Hey, I like fat chicks." Maybe one day, other fat girls out there will realize that they don't have to stay single, or settle for unattractive men. There are plenty of guys out there who are vocal about their preference, and even more who are in denial. Hopefully more men will become comfortable enough to make their interests know, giving us fat chicks more options (and more fun) in the future.

which is hilarious because at 250 I am dominating at life. I have three varsity letters in sports from high school, was a dancer for 12 years of my life, take zumba and hip hop classes, play basketball and softball regularly, do cartwheels, play tag, jog regularly, enjoy hiking and have rock climbed multiple times.

I love that Charlotte mentioned that CSI episode. Unfortunately 250-300 pounds in Hollywood is considered massive -on- the- verge- of -being -bedridden- with- obesity, how are you still walking kind of heavy.

NYC is a strange place to live if yo're into fat chicks.

Virtual high five to a BBW Admirer and a salute to the Voice for this article!!!!

HEY, that's Luna Love and her boyfriend on the cover

Nothing wrong with fat people, but I'd like to say a few things. Nobody in this article knows how nutrition works, not even the physician quoted. The food pyramid is wrong, genetics have little to do with your weight, and you're not necessarily going to end up the same weight as your mother. I really hate guys who assume that last point as a given.

I'm a SSBBW anad I live in one of the 'healthiest' cities in America, Austin, Texas. I've been single for quite some time now. It's very hard to find guys that actually *want* to date a fat chick. I'm a sexy fat chick that's sick of hearing from guys that they would only fuck you, not date you because they would rather have a "trophy girlfriend" rather than someone they truly get along with, actually find sexy and actually want to have hot passionate sex with. I've talked to hundreds of men that claim to like fat girls from all over the world. The sad part is the high percentage majority of them are still in the closet about liking fat chicks. For those out there that love us BBW and SSBBW, kudos to you and get your closet loving friends out of the closet because there are not enough men in this world that really want to date fat girls.

Im a big girl 5'9/333lbs and never really had too much an issue getting guys. This article I gotta say is freaking awesome,plus I can onky imagin the ppl reading this who wi be shocked that Fat is where its At! Lol. Greatly written and awesomely positive. Im sick of seeing negative articles about FA/BBW/SSBBW...

Amazing article. Loved it. :)

I DONT KNO WHERE IT CAME FROM THAT MEN DONT LIKE FAT WOMEN AND ITS NOT A FETISH EITHER..I THINK ITS ALL A PART OF THE DIET INDUSTRY TO KEEP US IN OUR PLACE...I HAVE NEVER HAD A PROBLEM WITH MEN AND THEY ARE NOT BIG GUYS EITHER...IM SO SICK OF THIS CRAP.WE WILL NEVER GET EVERYONE TO LIKE US AND THATS FINE, BUT AS LONG AS WE LIKE OURSELVES WHO CARES WHAT SOME SMALL PENIS BONE LOVING JACKASS THINKS...ONE LOVE TO ALL WOMEN... WE ARE QUEENS AND THEY KNO IT,SO DONT U FORGET IT...

FINALLY! Very happy to read this!

I've been working on this as a fulltime culture-subversion art-project for 35 freakin' years, and it just went Mainstream(as far as the hipster VV is Mainstream LOL) thanks to my young pal Dan! You should see these two on the dance-floor~ they are amazing!!

Love comes in all shapes and sizes I Prefer big women personally and have never been ashamed to hold hands down a street. Whether skinny, ,big, or enormous most women are crazy .

Yes this is so nice..This is for you N ...I m a real FA , my girl friend is a SSBBW... And she is so beautiful...Thankilovebigirl

I don't see why not because I know there are plenty of girls who do!

I want to congratulate this gentleman for doing this article. I do remember coming across his site years ago and I was shocked to see this on the front of the Village Voice. I have never had the experience of being with a guy who was ashamed to be with me because of my weight, but the fact that somebody would even do such a thing is awful. I know there are a lot of great guys like this out there because I married one. To all of you girls who have been with somebody who was ashamed of you because of your weight, just move on because he isn't worth it in the first place. Hold yourself to higher standards because you get back what you put out.

Sexual preference can not be limited to media cliches! I am sure there will be many sheeple with what about health knee jerk reactions! The truth is that isolation and denial of affection is one of the WORST risk factors for health. A very heavy person may be at greater risk of disease (although the dangers of fat have been exaggerated beyond belief for moderately fat folk), but that same person is healthier with a social support network than without one. Funny we never tell smokers not to wear seat belts, or alcoholics not to take their vitamins. But we seem to think that until fat people can become thin (and many can't), they have no right to normal lives. All the stigma we heap upon them compounds health problems, but we are so dysfunctional as a society we just can't see it.Kudos for those brave enough to seek their preferences. The world would be very boring if we all looked and thought the same. As for myself, I definitely feel more sensual fuller than leaner. I also like men with a little tummy! The thought of me as a size 8 with someone with the physique of Arnold S. Uhhhhh! Not enough Viagra in the world!!!

Let's have an article on chicks that like fat guys.

Article was great. However as a 30 year old African American woman who has been plus size my entire adult life and teens. I believe that some of the issues of weight are cultural. In the African American community a size 14 is not considered fat, but "thick". I believe that this article will help other "thick madames" who just haven't found the one who loves rolls tier 1 through infinity. I've been with the closet FA and they are hilarious because sometimes they're more emotionally involved than people think. Thanks for sharing. BTW there is hope out there, I've been with my husband for 11 years!

i m so FA, I m in love with 400 p ssbbw ...N , I love you ma grosse toutoune....this is my blog:

i like ssbbw and bbw woman only i like this type of woman too much i think this type of woman mean the beauty not skinny girl ..............

GREAT article!! It makes me think that there truly is hope out there that someone will like me "in public" as much as he does online or in the sheets. It's tough getting over those "I'm-interested-in-you-until-my-friends-or-roommates-come-home" types...Thank you for writing this!

I absolutely Love this article . and feel proud to be a "out" Fa . i wish more people where like me but thats what we all want right ? :) .big love to all those whithin this online community :)Have a nice day Jonathon

awww yay! so many friends named in this. Love the article. Thanks.

In answer to your question, "Who's fucking all the fatties?"...I am, and it's truly glorious. :D

Nice article. I prefer BBW than skinny women. BBW is the real deal for me:)

This story, indeed, encourages the prospect couples to hold on their grounds...love is important, not weight anyway.

It was an interesting read, I wasn't sure I was going to like it, but I did. Thanks for writing it :) It makes me feel a little more confident :)

Fabulous article! More of you guys have got to come out of the closet!!!!!

Nice article. I'm gonna send it to all my civilian friends. To the woman with the self-hatred on page 3 (and any fat women suffering same), might I recommend checking out adipositivity.com? And if you'd like, click the contact link and I'll refer you to some other resources.Substantia JonesThe Adipositivity Project

Great and very even-handed. Good article.

I enjoyed this immensely. Great article! Doesn't hurt that I know most of the people mentioned. :-D